How many times have you felt different from your fellow man? How many times have you felt uncomfortable sharing your true sexual desire with your spouse or partner?
How many times have you bought a video and worried that your secret would be discovered?
Sexual fetish begins in our formative years. We experience something that registers as a charged event in our subconscious mind. This strong feeling becomes sexualized and later in life takes over your sexuality in a very powerful fashion. You can’t control this fetish but you can choose how it affects your life. I can help you normalize your feelings and show you ways to maximize your fetish activity.
Why
Counseling?
Counseling is a place to explore your fetish in a safe, accepting environment.
I see many people who have never had a chance to share with another. Nothing
is too weird, shocking or offensive. You don’t have to censor your
thoughts. It is very healing to unload, talk, and share with someone who
will give you unconditional acceptance.
Benefits of Counseling:
I offer guidance on ways to change the shame and guilt you might be experiencing
in connection with your fetish. Once you change your thinking, your behaviors
will naturally follow. That means, it will eventually make it easier to
share this fetish in an intimate relationship if you choose to take that
route.
I can teach you ways integrate your fetish into your life in a healthy way. I’ll show you how to turn your secret into something that can be shared and enjoyed. Therapy will help you gain self-acceptance and awareness.
Types of Counseling Offered:
1. One on One Counseling: See me in my private office. We will establish workable goals and achieve them in just a few visits. This therapy is brief and can be accomplished in less than five visits. If you want to come more often and talk about other life events, I am qualified to do that too.
2. Couple Counseling: I can help you explore and share your fetish with your spouse or partner. Sometimes it’s more effective to have a professional explain fetish to the non-scene person. I provide an environment where they will feel safe, accepted and address all their concerns.
3. Counseling For Women Only: Many women are surprised when their husbands share their fetish with them. They may be shocked and have nowhere to turn. Who is qualified to answer your questions? Not your friends, that’s for sure. The advice they give you may be fatal to your relationship.
Women who come to me get straight answers and unconditional support. My demeanor is gentle, supportive and non-threatening. I can help you feel good about his fetish and turn it into something really positive in your life.
Talk to me and I guarantee your husband will appreciate you so much that he’ll give you anything you want. You’ll learn how to spice things up so much that your whole relationship will dramatically change. I guarantee that if you participate in his fetish correctly, he’ll never stray or do anything in secret again. I will also make sure that you are comfortable in your participation. I will make sure that your needs and feelings are thoroughly addressed.
My success rate with involving non-scene women is unsurpassed. I’ve single-handedly saved and greatly improved many marriages that were on the verge of dissolution.
4. Group Counseling: I offer support groups if you would like to share in a group setting. Email me to find out when the next group starts.
IMPORTANT NOTE: All of the above is held in an office setting. There is no play or hands-on experience.
5. Combination Therapy and Play: Sometimes I find it’s helpful to do combination therapy/play sessions with couples (especially those who travel from out of town). Oftentimes, the spouse is all ready aware of their partners needs. First we take some time to talk and clarify concerns and answer questions. Then, I do some hands on demonstration and instruction. The teaching might come in the form of showing how to use equipment, participating in a session or learning. This unconventional type meeting would be considered a session. It is not held at the office and is subject to different rates.
About Jacqueline Omerta:
I am a counselor with an expertise in sexuality and fetish behavior. I
have a Master’s Degree in Clinical Psychology and have had over
20 years experience with sexual fantasy and fetish. I am a well known
as spanking fetishist and shared my own story in the book, ‘Whips
and Kisses’.
I have actively involved in the spanking and S/M community for two decades. My company produced hundreds of videos. Though spanking is my own personal passion, I am well versed in all fetishes and unconventional sexuality including but not limited to Dominant/submissive interaction, cross-dressing, foot fetishes, leather, latex, bondage and tickling.Contact Me About Therapy.
If you are interested in any of the therapies
above, please email me first. Tell me:
Your name and how you found out about me. Please
let me know a little about you, your fetish, your life situation and why
you are seeking counseling at this time. Provide
me with a phone number if you can. If not, I’ll let you know how
and when to contact me by phone.
Jacqueline Omerta
MISJACQ@aol.com