Q:
How Were You Introduced To The Scene?
A: No one actually introduced me to the scene. I simply had a natural
inclination towards D/s activities; especially spanking. Spanking was
a turn on to me for as far back as I can remember. When I was a girl we
used to play a game at summer camp. The girls would chase the boys to
the finish line. Generally we'd successfully out run them. Then we'd wrestle
the boys to the ground and give them spankings and pink bellies. I loved
being the spanker. I got a special thrill from winning and making the
boys squirm. Year later, I still get the same thrill when I have a grown
boy over my knee.
Q: Did You start submissive?
A: No, I didn't start in any particular way. My fascination has always
been for the scene in all its many forms and facets. I have played on
both sides of the fence, which I think is important. By experiencing the
submissive end I'm more attuned to the emotional and physical aspects
of the D/s interchange.
Q: How Old Were
You?
A: I started playing for real in my mid-twenties. That's the same time
I became sexually active and experimenting with sex in a variety of ways.
Q: Did You train
under someone?
A: I started working professionally at a well-known bondage parlor in
LA. That experience was great because I became exposed to many different
types of sessions and a wide variety of scenes. Many well-known Dominatrixes
also worked at the club. Lucky for me, I got to observe and learn from
some of the best.
Q: Do You work
with Women and couples?
A: Definitely. In fact working and training women is a big part of my
practice. Recently I posted a special letter on my website offering to
teach women how to be dominant. I got a huge response. I love teaching
other women how to control their men. Sometimes they come with their spouse
and we dominate him together. That's always a blast. Women tell me that
I make them feel comfortable. Though I'm the trained Domina, the husbands
quickly learn that it's their wife whom they'll ultimately have to obey.
I'm also a licensed
clinical psychologist and have counseled many couples on how to successfully
incorporate S/M or fetish activities into their existing relationships.
Q. Please tell
us about Your book?
A: My book is called Whips and Kisses. It was published in 1991. It is
my autobiography and tells about my own entrée into the S/M and
spanking lifestyle.
Q. Your videos
are about the best I have ever seen. Please tell us what some of Your
favorites are?
A: Recently I did a video that was really amazing. It's called 'Ball Bustin'
Bitches". A submissive male contacted me on-line and said he was
into ball kicking. We talked and I decided to do a video with him. I got
my two friends Francesca Le and Angel into my dungeon. Between the three
of us we kicked this guy in the balls for an hour straight. Though he
nearly passed out, he was true to his word. He could totally take it.
Another favorite video is Merciless Beatings. This one I did with my very
good friend and fellow Domina, Mistress Omega and her assistant, Nicole.
We found two guys who could really take it. We spanked them until their
teeth chattered. The caning scene is really awesome.
Q. Please tell
us about Your fetish magazines which can be purchased?
A: Power X-Change Magazine features real Dominatrixes who are available
for sessions. Unlike other companies, I don't dress porno girls up in
leather. I look for real women who have real practical experience and
let them do their thing on camera without direction. I want to document
the scene as it truly exists. Power X-Change always has two or three featured
Mistresses who are interviewed personally by me. Each issue also contains
a complete Mistress Directory with direct contact information. SPANKASM
is my spanking magazine. Again, everyone in that magazine is real and
all the spanking photos depict actual punishment and discipline.
Q: What was the
weirdest scene You ever did?
A: I don't consider any scene weird. I go by the theory that whatever
is done between two consenting adults is OK. Everyone is different; everyone
has different turn-ons and fantasies.
Q: What was the
harshest scene You ever participated in?
A: My heaviest scenes are my corporal punishment scenes. I've been known
to make grown men cry!
Q. What are Your
favorite implements for administering corporal punishment?
A: My real favorite implement is my hand. I give an unbelievably solid
hand spanking and my arm never grows tired. Hairbrushes are another favorite
implement followed by my own new discovery - sintra paddles. Sintra is
a new space age material. It's better than wood or leather. The sting
is amazing.
Q: Is there any
scene You haven't done yet that You would like to?
A: I'm always open to new things and love creativity.
Q: Do You also
work with cross dressing and sissy slaves?
A: Yes, I enjoy turning naughty boys into nasty girls. I have a good time
with sexy slutty slaves. The raunchier; the better.
Q: Do You do public
outings with Your cross dressing slaves?
A: Oh sure, I've been doing that for years. I have my favorite haunts
I frequent in LA. Many shopkeepers know me and welcome me personally to
their establishments. I also have a bunch of hairdressers and make-up
artists who are available to help with the complete transformation.
Q. Do You enjoy
humiliation?
A: It depends on what you mean. Humiliation is an ambiguous term. I enjoy
playing games that may embarrass a slave. After all, slaves are toys who
exist for my amusement. Sometimes I'm in the mood to be entertained and
I enjoy thinking up funny tasks for my servants to perform.
Q. What can a new slave do to please You in his or her first visit?
A: Don't come early!!! I bet you don't hear that one too often. Don't
be too eager or falsely submissive. A first session is like a first date.
Be on your best behavior but be yourself. I like a slave who is open and
communicates. The more he shares, the better our session will be.
Q. What are Your
favorite types of gifts from slaves?
A: I don't expect or require gifts but as long as you're asking....I have
a shot glass collection so I'm always looking for additions. I drink Skyye
Vodka and Jack Daniels...and I love high heel shoes. My shoe size is 5
and 1/2.
Q: Do You enjoy
having Your feet worshipped?
A: Who doesn't? I especially like having my feet massaged. A good foot
slave is worth a great deal to me if he knows how to massage me correctly.
I also enjoy teasing with my toes. I find foot play extremely erotic.
Q: What equipment
do You have?
A: I have a fully equipped dungeon and can accommodate all kinds of sessions.
All my hardware was custom made especially for me. I have a cool spanking
block that holds a spankee comfortably in place for very long periods
of time. I have a bondage chair that makes a slave's private parts open
and vulnerable to my touch. I also have a special bondage table with a
surprise hole in the middle.
Q: What implements do You have?
A: I've collected tons of implements over the years. Since I'm way into
spanking, I have a huge collection of paddles, hairbrushes, straps and
canes. Of course, one of my favorite implements is my own bare hand. The
sensations I create with my just my hands and fingertips alone can be
pretty amazing.
Q: Are double sessions,
extended, overnight, or a submissive available?
A: I often do double sessions and extended sessions that last long into
the night. In fact those are my favorite kinds. Some of my spanking clients
can't seem to get spanked enough. We sit and talk about spankings over
a glass of wine. It's so much fun. I don't have the facilities to accommodate
guests overnight but I have a special hotel that is very close to my playroom.
I have both submissive and dominant females available to join in the fun.
Q: Is phone training
and postal available?
A: In this day and age, postal training is pretty obsolete. I've come
up with something much more efficient and modern - My Home Slave Training
Video Course. This program consists of three separate video taped lessons.
It's the next best thing to having a personal session with me. You can
order the video course on my website or through my video catalog. Members
of my on line stable are privy to special slave training lessons. They
are very much like the old-fashioned postal slave training lessons except
that they reach everyone instantly. Each lesson contains a personal message
from me and a whole bunch of inter-active commands. On line slaves are
required to keep a diary and email me their progress. To date, it's been
a very effective teaching tool. Those who complete the on-line training
stand a better chance of receiving personal training directly from Me.
Q: Do You attend
any fetish events?
A: I attend private parties and some of the LA based play parties. I love
meeting and interacting with real lifestyle players like myself. I
don't attend fetish events that have a dress code. They are attended more
by 'weekend warriors' than real lifestyle scene people.
Parties that emphasize
clothing are superficial to say the least. It's a form of reverse discrimination.
I resent being required to wear a 'fetish uniform' and I hate rules. The
people hosting those parties are promoting a form of elitism that doesn't
belong in our group of sexually free and open-minded people.
Q. How many TV
appearances have You made?
A: In the early 90's, I appeared on just about every major TV and radio
show. I first decided to come out of the closet to help others. The success
of my TV appearances encouraged me to further come out of the closet and
write my book, 'Whips and Kisses'. I knew I wasn't the only one out there
was sexually different. I risked my own anonymity for the good of others.
That means I had to come out to my family too which wasn't easy. However,
the end result was more than rewarding. I was successful in helping many,
many others.
Q: Do you still
go on TV shows?
A: I've recently appeared on cable shows like Colin's Sleazy Friends and
Harley's Video Party. I'm also a frequent guest on LA radio station, KFI.
Those are the shows that are intelligent and treat me well. The network
shows have become really stupid and low class. In fact Jerry Springer
Show called just last week. They wanted me to go on the air and talk about
my married clients who are in effect cheating on their wives when they
have a session with me. They wanted me to breach confidentiality's. Can
you imagine!! I told them that no true Dominatrix with any integrity would
ever touch that topic. The producer hung the phone up on me!
Q. How can a slave contact You to inquire about a session?
A: Before contacting me, go to my website and click on 'Personal Sessions'.
My session requirements are spelled out carefully. Because I am who I
am I have the luxury of being very selective about those I see. I'm not
a budget Mistress who you can breeze into town and call. I like to develop
a relationship with those I see. |